Marriages seem to have an ebb and flow to them. They start out full of passion with both partners deeply committed to making the other happy. If you can remember back to when you first married your husband, chances are that you placed his happiness before your own and he did the same. If his feelings have started to shift, it can put you in a very difficult place. Watching your primary relationship slowly die right in front of your eyes is never an easy thing. If you still love your husband and you are committed to making the marriage work, there are some simple steps you can take, starting today, to get your husband to love you more.
The most important step you can take to get your husband to love you more is talk to him about what he feels is lacking in the relationship. Not all men are quick to reveal their innermost feelings, but if you make it clear to your husband that you want to help deal with whatever he feels is missing from your marriage, he may just open up to you. You have to do this in a non-threatening way and you can't go on the defensive or he'll shut down. Let him know that nothing is as important to you as he is. Ensure he knows that you value the marriage and him.
Most women have no idea that one way to get your husband to love you more is to focus on yourself. We tend to put everyone's needs and interests above our own when we become wives and mothers. This can actually have a damaging effect on your relationship with your husband. If a man feels that he's not stimulating enough or interesting enough for his wife, he may give up trying. Show him that you have a full, well -rounded life that he is the center of. Find something to pursue outside of the home, be it a career or even volunteer work. You'll not only feel better about yourself, which will show your husband how much value you are placing on your needs, but it will give you two something exciting and new to talk about together.
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