Marriage isn't a bed of roses. Any woman who has a husband knows that. Once the honeymoon phase is over and real life begins, the dynamic of the relationship can shift. It's not unusual for a woman to start questioning what her spouse is feeling for her. So when it comes to how to know your husband loves you the answer is more in his actions than in his words.
Most women, at some point in their lives, have been involved with a man who said all the right words but couldn't back them up. If that man happens to be your husband, you're caught in a delicate situation. Do you take him at his word and believe that he's crazy about you or do you pay closer attention to the subtle hints that are hidden away in his actions? What he does is much more telling than what he says.
One easy way to determine what your husband is feeling for you is how attentive he is to your needs. Early in marriage we often feel like queens because our husbands dote on us. If you notice that dynamic changing, take notice of it. Naturally as the marriage progresses and you have children and more responsibilities, his interest may shift, but if he seems unconcerned or doesn't offer to help, that may be a sign that his feelings have changed.
Has your husband been coming up with excuses for why he can't spend time with you? If he has, that's a red flag that you cannot ignore. Our first instinct is to jump to the conclusion that our spouse is having an affair, but that's not always the case. A husband can feel emotional conflict over spending time with his wife when he feels less in love with her. He may feel that it's too difficult to go through the motions of appearing in love. So instead he finds reasons to avoid being with her. If you feel that is happening in your own marriage, now is the time to address it before things deteriorate to the point of divorce.
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